Understand today’s assignment, babies: waiting for reciprocity is a silly ass game we play to be seen, heard, valued. ALLLLL THAT lives outside of the self and will be never ending and costly.
It’s more important to trust your instincts, listen to those 🚩internal red flags 🚩 and choose who has earned the right to be in your space, who has EARNED the right to your love, your time, compassion, money, sacrifice, discomfort. Otherwise, you can end up opening the door to some toxic people who will take every last drop if you let them.
Trust ya girl on this one.
One thing you can do, straight away, is start getting CRYSTAL CLEAR with what YOU want and what it looks like, sounds like, tastes like, feels like, etc.
Some questions you can ask yourself to get started:
What do I want from my relationships?
How do I want to spend my own time?
What is ONE THING that important to me that I have to do each day?
These are some great starting points for you to start putting the ball in your own court, putting value and effort into yourself over others. This clarity will help you to create boundaries around what you say yes to and how to stand firmly in your NO.
We will talk about that later...Stay tuned for PART II (coming soon...)
And, if you’re in this space, wondering how THE FUXK you got taken advantage of again, angry and resentful, let me help you get strong and more confident. I got you