How Do You Know if Your Friends are Legit?

If you are reading this...then maybe you are questioning the folks you have been spending time with. AND THAT'S GREAT!


It means that you are shifting and starting to listen to some of those gut feelings that sum ain't right. This is where you get to choose people in your tribe who have EARNED THE RIGHT TO BE THERE! Maybe you have some friends who fall into these categories and maybe even dim your shine!


Remember:

Your circle matters.

Who you surround yourself with matters.

Having a small and solid circle is the JAM.


If the people in your life are draining and cause you to question your own needs, it may be time to say adios, tighten the circle and make sure those in it, get it.


Questions to ask:

  • How do I feel when I am around them?

  • How do I feel being myself around them?

  • How honest can I be about what I need and feel?

  • How do the responses to those needs make me feel?

  • When I close my eyes and think of the kinds of relationships I want it my life: are they it??!?


So ask yourself these and if this person in particular has truly earned the right to be in your dope ass tribe....

And maybe you can belong to ours??! We got you!


Reach out when your ready <3


~Ang & The Fam



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